Meet Our Northeast Indiana Family Counseling Staff
Serving families in Allen County, Adams County, Whitley County, DeKalb County, LaGrange County, Noble County, Wells County, Huntington County, and Steuben County.
Brooke Sellhorn, M.A., LMFT – Therapist & Clinical Director of Crosswinds Family Counseling
Brooke Sellhorn graduated with a Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology from Wheaton College. She has been a state board approved Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 2011. She has ten years of experience working with children that have difficult behaviors, emotional issues, attachment problems, anger, ADHD, depression, sexual issues, and a history of trauma. Brooke is trained in attachment-based interventions, crisis management, family systems, and trauma. She also has experience coaching parents to develop structure in their home and to build stronger relationships with their children. Brooke is a certified SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) clinician and has worked with numerous couples to improve their relationships through pre-marital and marital counseling. She approaches clients from a Christian worldview, integrating Biblical truths and the story of redemption as she works with them to heal and to restore relationships. She has worked with many types of families, including adoptive, blended, and foster, to address problems and to draw them closer together.
Laura Oyer, Ph.D., HSPP – Psychologist, Clinical Specialist
Dr. Laura Oyer received a Doctoral Degree in Counseling Psychology from the University of Northern Colorado and a Master’s of Arts Degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from Ball State University. She is a licensed psychologist in Indiana and Colorado and is endorsed as a Health Service Provider in Psychology (HSPP). Dr. Oyer has extensive experience working with adolescents and adults with disordered eating and body image issues in a variety of settings. She also has experience treating clients with substance abuse, trauma, depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, personality disorders, suicidal ideation, and self-harm behaviors. She utilizes an integrative approach, focusing on Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Experiential and Motivational Interviewing techniques. Additionally, Dr. Oyer values building a strong therapeutic relationship with clients and families, as well as helping them feel empowered and find balance in their lives.
Tim LaGro, M.A., LMHC
Tim graduated with a Master’s of Arts Degree in Clinical Counseling from Ashland Theological Seminary. He has been a state board approved Licensed Mental Health Clinician since 2016. Tim has over five years experience counseling individuals, marriages, and families. He works with all ages but particularly enjoys helping other men, teens, and families. Tim also has experience working in the field of business before entering the mental health field, which some clients find helpful in working through work-life balance, stress, anxiety, and performance issues. Tim has extensive experience with defiant teenagers, mental health disorders, personality disorders, suicidality, oppositional defiance, school issues, and crisis management. Tim is thankful for God’s grace and faithfulness in his life. His heart is to share God’s love with others and to help them to find their purpose in life.
Shannon Brady, M.S. – Therapist
Shannon received her Master’s of Science degree in Mental Health Counseling, from the University of Saint Francis. Shannon has experience working with all age and socio-economic groups in individual, family, marriage and group therapy. Shannon has worked with adolescents, children and families who have serious emotional and behavioral problems. She has completed specialized training in trauma focused cognitive behavioral therapy and has done specialized work with people that have experienced incidents of trauma: including physical, sexual or emotional abuse, accidents, injuries or any life threatening event. She has experience helping with issues such as ADHD, behavioral issues, social skills, anger management and sexually inappropriate behaviors, along with chronic mental health issues. Shannon also has past experience working with Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, providing individuals and groups with skills training and support. Additionally, Shannon has experience working with children and families within the Autism spectrum disorder to learn coping skills, provide tools, and support the parents.
T. Martin Graverson, M.A. – Therapist
Marty graduated from Indiana Wesleyan University with a BS in psychology and from Grace College with a Master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling. Marty has been working with youth and families for over five years. As a professional counselor, Marty has worked with individuals, couples, and families toward wholeness and interpersonal competence as they navigate through the transitions and changes that life encompasses. Marty desires to foster growth through a personally devoted, deeply committed, and genuine therapeutic relationship. Marty is gifted in addressing a spectrum of personal and family issues, marriage conflict, trauma, sexual issues, and helping adolescents better develop a sense of self. Marty works with clients to realize that although we cannot always control what happens in life, we have the inner strength and wisdom within ourselves to heal, persevere, and grow through our circumstances.
Aubrey Garner, M.A., LMHCA- Therapist
Aubrey earned her Master’s of Arts degree in Counseling from Huntington University, which focused on developing an ability to integrate faith in the counseling setting while aiding families and individuals with their goals for personal growth. Aubrey has worked coaching and counseling families and individuals with emotional and relational needs including delinquency, affairs, developing and attaining goals, various family interpersonal issues, and individual trauma. Aubrey has been trained in both Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Family Centered Treatment and has a great passion for working on overcoming the grip of trauma on one’s life as well as helping the family to cope with the effects of the trauma. She has experience and drive in developing intimacy and improving functioning in families. Aubrey earned a certificate in Motivational Interviewing and approaches the counseling relationship in a manner that respects and empowers the client in his or her strengths and abilities.
Beth Pictor, M.A. – Therapist
Tim Gileand, M.A. – Therapist
Tim Gilleand received his masters in professional counseling from Liberty University in 2014. He has experience working with adults and adolescents in a variety of mental health needs including anxiety, depression, PTSD, bipolar, and more. He also enjoys marital and premarital couples counseling. Tim has been involved in various ministry positions for over 15 years, and is comfortable addressing spiritual concerns. He brings a passion for forgiveness therapy and confidence building to empower our clients for future success.
Alicia DiGiulio M.A. – Therapist
Alicia graduated from Huntington University with a Master of Arts degree in Counseling and is currently a candidate for LMHC licensure. She also earned a Master of Science degree in Education from Canisius College, and she previously taught middle/high school students. Alicia has a passion for working with children and adolescents struggling with behavioral and emotional issues including those with a history of trauma, anxiety, depression, and anger management difficulties. Alicia has professional experience working on a variety of issues with individuals (children, adolescents, college students, adults), couples, and families. Additionally, Alicia has previous experience utilizing Dialectical Behavioral Therapy with individuals and groups for skills training and support, and she has counseling experience with those who struggle with chronic mental illnesses as well as those with developmental disabilities. Her warm and caring nature allows her to address difficult issues with clients, and she values the therapeutic relationship as one of trust and collaboration. Therapy is provided from a variety of treatment modalities including client-centered, cognitive-behavioral, family systems, play therapy, and faith integration.
Janae Webb, MS.Ed – Therapist
Janae graduated with a Master’s of Science degree in Education from Indiana University Purdue University Fort Wayne with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. She has experience working with children, adolescents, and adults who are suffering from anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation. She also has experience working with couples and families to improve communication and work together to resolve interpersonal issues. She has completed additional training in play therapy, the Gottman couples counseling approach, suicide prevention, and crisis prevention. Treatment modalities include cognitive-behavioral, client-centered, Gottman, restoration, narrative, and play therapy. Janae has a passion for walking alongside individuals, couples, and families through emotionally and relationally difficult times to create long-lasting change, restore hope and to help them live their lives more authentically.
Blake Neuhauser – M.A. – Therapist
Blake received his Master’s degree from Huntington University. He has experienced working with adolescents, and adults struggling with a variety of issues including trauma, adjustment, relational conflict, anxiety, depression, grief, behavioral issues, and self-harm. Blake uses a variety of theories including Gestalt, Cognitive-Behavioral therapy, and Client Centered to best work on the deeper issues a client may be facing. He is also dedicated in helping to integrate Christian beliefs into counseling to help insure that the solutions are not just temporary, but long lasting.
Bonnie Spallinger, M.A. – Therapist
Bonnie has completed her Masters in Professional Counseling from Liberty University She has experienced working with children, adolescents, and adults struggling with communication, parenting, adjustment, relational conflict, divorce, marriage conflict, anxiety, depression, grief, substance use, behavioral issues, anger management, and self-harm. She is trained in trauma focused-cognitive behavioral therapy. She strives to meet her clients where they are at and walk with them though the challenges they are facing while providing help through empowerment. Additionally, Bonnie has experience as a teacher, working in camp ministry, and working with adolescents and young adults in boarding school and college settings.
Chad Eckert, M.A. –Family Coach
Chad Eckert has a Master’s degree in Transpersonal Psychology with a concentration in Ecopsychology from Naropa University and is a certified Christian Life Coach. He has experience discipling and coaching individuals, families and at risk youth. As a Family Coach, he seeks to discover and re-discover people’s remembrance of God’s presence and plan for their life. He focuses on reducing stress, maximizing potential and becoming who God is calling them to be.
Jim Stoppenhagen, B.S. –Family Coach
Jim earned a BS degree from Purdue University and a two year Bible Certificate from Christian Training Center. For the past 35 years, he has focused helping at-risk youth and training others that want to do the same. In 1993 Jim and his wife formed StillWater Ministries, Inc. and purchased a 30 acre camp in Southwest Allen County. For 20 years, he has supervised the total operation of this non-profit organization which includes a summer camp for inner city children, ministry training for youth and team-building retreats for church and mission teams. He also developed and administrated an after-school clubhouse outreach in the inner city of Fort Wayne. Jim utilizes his years of ministry and mission work to strengthen families in their home. The wisdom he has gained from over three decades of working with youth helps him to coach parents how to be relational, authoritative, and loving. Jim also is able to minister to fathers on how to be godly men and how to lead their families in ways which God intends.